How to control emotions at work with priority


This is a very serious topic as this may change the way you used to be into several things be it work, college, internship, sports, etc. depending upon emotions at work. Due to increasing population and connectivity and other facilities, there’s an increased competition over the last decade in every other field.

what is competition all about ?

Well I have worked as a software developer in a MNC and there I got a chance to see each and every aspect of the technology. Obviously, I was not alone and everyone was getting the same exposure that I could get. Since the race is for the better performance, promotions and in our case chances of onsite projects abroad that would lure the engineers to make more out of  what they can.

This is very much common to all the careers be it cricket, again I had been into cricket like most of the players, everyone would get at a time slot for practice due to limited time and practice nets available. Since it is available for all, everyone would be getting the same exposure and guidance and the very less probability of making it to the next level further decreases the chances and increases the competition. The one who practices from heart and religiously as per the requirement would have chances of succeeding.

How do emotions come in between ?

This is a very logical thing. The aftereffects of whatever happened with you and of your thoughts are emotions which come out as the physical gestures, facial expressions and are more perceptible to the outer world and further reaction from you family, friends ,colleagues etc make you more conscious and further have a say in your performance at work etc.

It may be good or bad depending on the situations but if nature of your work is bit ruthless and demand a proper cognition then you would need to be ruthless towards you as well.You may have a fight at home before you leave for work, or you are having a crush on a boy/girl and thinking about the same think over the time and fantasising about the same doing nothing will definitely decrease your performance if you are not strong enough to hold your patience to the things and to your work as well.

What to do with emotions?

The whole game is about the priority as it would be wrong to say that you carry on the work without thinking about the health of your family members who may be having serious health conditions as you need to keep that in your priority and at the same time if you are lost in distractions or fantasies then it would be a problem as at work you are not considering what you should do and what is required for you to work and there are times when you would need to have much of the attention day and night on the things to get them done and you are not only avoiding the opportunity but also putting your own future at stake as this may have other consequences as well.

solution :

Well a person does what he finds important. Let me give you a live example from your own life. As a child when playing video games, the only thing was to go level up and finally boom. This required continuous efforts as well. Now see this video

This video showed the continuous efforts on the game by the user to finish it and the efforts were continuous only due to the determination he/she showed for that. Similar for your work which is going to decide your future and lifestyle and nature of work/job. You need to have a point focus towards it to gain an edge over the other competitors.

This is the time where you can do better where others are still missing something. Here your smart work, determination etc would come into play which itself needs to be kept at higher priority.

P.S : I would make some updates to this as per new possibilities or anything that would seem missed out.

Thank you

stay uplifted 🙂

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